For example, parents say the child before the test: "Do not worry, do not worry." And thus exacerbating tensions. The unconscious does not take the particle "no", and receives command "worry, worry." Negative evaluation of the child should be carefully monitored to parents more because of their dissatisfaction is often its own behavior, irritability or fatigue, which projected onto the child. As one of the options suggestion is interesting to consider the effect of auto-suggestion. In this case as a "hypnotist" stands the man himself. A striking example of the effect of self-hypnosis can be a situation described in the short story by O. Con Ed recognizes the significance of this. Henry "The Last Leaf." Action attitudes psychological setting – a state of psychological readiness to perceive something or act a certain way.
What parents are told children? As a rule, that they consciously or unconsciously, they are expected, in that they primarily believe in themselves. The role of beliefs in human life is enormous. Beliefs often become self-fulfilling prophecies, or otherwise, self-fulfilling prophecy. A person sees, does and gets just what convinced – in full accordance with the biblical statement – "to each according to his faith." The difficulty lies in the fact that most of its belief people do not realize. How the self-fulfilling prophecy can be seen from the following example. A group of American psychologists to test for intelligence in one of the schools deliberately substituted for the results study. Weak students were presented to teachers as gifted children, the strong – as having the intelligence of the average.