Parenting Together
Then do not be surprised that you can be the child's biological father or mother and not being a parent. After all parents – those people who are most strongly influenced by the child during the formation of his personality. Think about it: who is bringing up your children? Who has the greatest influence on their growth and development? Teachers at the school? TV? Grandma and Grandpa? Street? Children can not educate yourself and if you do not take for it themselves, then educate your child will be someone else. In any case, the child will find someone to learn, but if it will not you, the results can be disastrous. Education inevitably leaves a deep imprint on the lives of children – negative or positive. In the life of any person is someone who was brought up by his or educates.
Children usually are a reflection of his life and his behavior, character and behavior of those who are engaged in their education. The child becomes like those people (sometimes even outwardly) that most influenced him, and not necessarily that of his biological parents. In general, I think that a child in the "school" and in any other age is very important and nothing is indispensable communication with parents. Full communion, especially with the parent of the same sex, helps shape a child's positive self-esteem, and lack of communication hurts it. Communicating with a child can do anything (there is already set to specifically your upbringing), the main thing – together. With a child can draw, play, read, or perform any work – the time that you spend with it is priceless. At such moments, hours or you can show all his love and understanding. This can be done by phone, or a note attached to the refrigerator magnet.
Maybe all of these methods are also good, but there is nothing better personal communication. Tip to parents: If you have not yet learned to express his love, believe me, you should learn how to show it off as quickly as possible. Do not stall. Time to grow up!